In between facebooking & web surfering last night I came across a Men's Health Magazine article (by Author not sited) titled;
"6 Sex Mistakes You're Making"
1. Sex is a RaceBreak it: Explore her. Focus on her thighs and lower belly. Make a mental circle 2 inches around the outside of her vagina, and don't cross the line while you kiss, lick, and caress, says Gloria Brame, Ph.D., author of Different Loving. You'll ignite her nerve endings and bring her close to her red zone. It makes sex about discovery, not some destination. "Goal-oriented sex isn't sexy," Brame says.
2. Same Time, Same PlaceBreak it: Relive the past. Take her to the garage and reclaim the space you long ago ceded: Seduce her in the backseat of the car. It feels a little public, it's steeped in testosterone, and there's a throwback, high-school quality to it. Make it a quickie, which has its place in the sexual diet; having lots of sex begets more sex, because you stay connected, says Laura Berman, Ph.D., director of the Berman Center in Chicago.
3. Predictable ForeplayBreak it: Work out together. Think of it as fat-burning foreplay. It will raise her dopamine levels, easing her anxieties. "She'll feel the sex is about her and not some random need she has to accommodate," says Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D., a professor of sociology at Washington University. Bonus: Your post-run sweat has androstadienone, a testosterone derivative that spikes her arousal when she smells it.
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Some men know that a light touch of the tongue, running from a woman's toes to her ears, lingering in the softest way possible in various places in between, given often enough and sincerely enough, would add immeasurably to world peace.
Marianne Williamson
Find me the man that knew this already and you've found my husband! Lol...ok, so I'm lookin for more than just great, extraordinary love-making...however, it is SOOO important that neither person in the relationship gets lax and too comfortable in this category.
Spice it up! Keep your partner on the edge...he/she should be thinking about what he/she's gonna do to you tonight while tryna get some work done at the office...that's how good it should be.
This also ties into open communication. If you want more in the bedroom, say so. If you wanna do something different/out of the ordinary, all you can do is ask and discuss it. And if it's already a known fact that both of you are freaks, then just go for it!
6 Mistakes Women Make In Bed.
1) Being Stinky: Ladies, take a bath or shower. Please. While you should do this on a regular basis anyway, if you know you're going to get some, you might need to take 2 in one day. A little Bath & Body Works or VS body spray after a fresh shower or bath will do wonders for a man. Fresh flowers always reign.
2) Being Too Passive: Ladies, men get tired of the missionary position. It's really okay to jump on top of him sometimes. You'll be surprised how the look on his face quickly turns from surprise to passion.
3) Being Too Uppity: Okay, see, we loooove when a man goes down on us (if he does it right.) But going down on him? HELL TO THE NAW. Don't turn your nose up at it! We've been fighting for equality for years...and equality doesn't end in the bedroom. Be fair. Now maybe ya'll need to take a shower together before to make sure he's clean...see number 1.
4) Being Wild: And I don't mean in how you have sex, I'm talking about making sure down there isn't too wild. It's not always necessary that you shave or wax, because that's not everyone's thing. But at least clean it up! There is nothing unsexier than a man being down there, and then having to stop and spit to get hair off his lip or from between his teeth. Pffffft!!
5) Being Self-Conscious: I know, we all have issue with our bodies. Some of us want asses, some of us have too much ass, hardly any of us have a six pack. But I've learned---if a man is willing to have sex with you, then obviously he finds you attractive. So find yourself attractive too!
6) Being old: Time out for the granny panties. Let me give you a clue: your panties should not have so much fabric that you can see the fabric peeking out on top of your jeans. Now, I understand that some woman can't really do the silky panties because it doesn't agree with your Virginia, but you can still be sexy in some cotton VS panties. Leave the high briefs alone! Go for the V-Strings or the hiphuggers. And my man likes me in boyshorts, because it's really sexy with a tight t-shirt or cami. You don't always have to wear a thong. Mix it up. Find what works for you and your man. But it is never attractive to take off your jeans to see baggy white fabric.
Spontaneity is the key for ME.. Ladies and Gents.. its OK to leave the bed room.. Change the scene up, walk down the street (a safe street) like a hoe and have him drive down and pick u up like a prostitute.. (ROLE PLAY) Men get bored very easy and so do I.. Whip cream and the trench coat is so 1964... LOL Be creative, go to an alley, do it under a street light.. give him head while he's driving u to dinner.. Make him excited to be around u.. Make him want you and only you, make him look foward to the next time.. Make it hard for the next chick....
One more thing.. Ladies dont think u know it all.. Dont be offended if he tells u that u need a lil bit mo practice doing things.. Be willing to learn.. Just because it was good to one guy doesnt mean it works for the other... AND sometimes guys wont say u could use a lil bit mo practice, so u probably thinking u all good... LEARNING is FUN... LOL
Ok im done
There we have it ladies and gent... Tiffany Milaun...
That is so real. that is one of the things I have been working on... Being spontaneous.. I know I don't know it all and I respect a woman that can say, "Nikkie, do it like this or like that... I aim to please, and who better know how to be pleased than you?
So, ladies, you do have my UNDIVIDED attention... as I would to be able to get it right every time... ok, Most of the time, who the heck you think I am, Teddy?
I am Nikkie and these are my thoughts..
My name is B. Free and I support Free Thought!
[Thinks] my job here has only just started.
fyi: did ya'll know that i'm tracking the hits on my page by country and we are officially global. India & Canada are in the building!!!
This is why I've been a fan of Men's Health magazine for so many years.
They cover you WHOLE health and they do it quite well I might add
How you gonna be anonymous and sign your posting with your name...Nikkie!
Tiffany I'm with you on most everything...but I ain't walkin' down the street like no hoe. But I most certainly can be your stripper, french maid, cheerleader, school girl, sexy secretary....
I need to subscribe to Men's Health....
After reading this..I plan on not making the 7th dumb ass mistake! Thanks!!!
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