DEAR DR. B. FREE

Sooo, I have been talking to this guy since almost a year. He is from out of town and is mad cool. He is such a gentleman, the sweetest person ever met and he truly cares for me.I honestly believe he wants the best for me.

I enjoy talking to him and he makes me laugh and whatnot. However, there is one thing missing. You know, (well you may not; "Bow Chica Bow Wannnn)in the beginning of a relationship all you want to do is talk to that person (even though I'm not much of a phone talker) and all you can do is think about that person. Like that's a feeling you are supposed to get when something is new.

Well, I felt that for maybe the first two weeks of this little thing, but I feel it NO MORE. AND.... and on top of that I have ABSOLUTELY no desire to do anything sexual with him... AT ALL. Not to say he is not a handsome guy, but I just don't feel that way about him. I feel bad because everybody wants me to be with him andI just don't feel it..its just not there. And my fam is really feeling him from all of the good things he has done for me. I'm so confused about it all and don't know what to do. Should I say how I feel about him now?... or...wait for awhile and see if these feelings for him sprout up out of the ground? The only thing is its almost a catch 22...either i tell him now and possibly hurt his feelings or wait til later and hurt his feelings even more.

What should I do...? I guess I'm just thinking about if another guy that's truly a good guy and cares about me is ever gonna come around again. Go easy on me...it's hard for me to express my feelings and this whole email is a bit much for Me

Ms Catch 22,

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Fat Tuesday Happy Hour @ Joseph's

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FreeTime - WinterFresh III

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"Second Showing Saturday" For Madea Goes to Jail!

"Second Showing Saturday"

For Madea Goes to Jail!

Since the movie comes out friday the 20th and many of us don't like the hustle and bustle of premier night. http://www.bfreepaparazzi.blogspot.com/ will be hosting a "Second Showing Saturday". This and RSVP exclusive event, we will have discounted tickets, and only a limited amount tickets will be reserved. RSVP's are 1st come 1st serve and once we have reached the our limit no more tickets will be sold.

Email mailto:info@bfreepaparazzi.comto RVSP & to recieve showing details for this event.

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Keep Your Bidness Out of the Office!!!

Good Morning STL,

One of my co-workers runs her mouth constantly about her personal life, other people, and pretty much any and everything that crosses her mind. Not matter how much she gets confronted, disciplined, or "cussed out" she always seems to find ways to cross that line. Whilst listen to one of her tyraids i went online to see if there was some rules and regulations on this

topic.... Here's what i found...

13 things to never share or discuss with your co-workers.

1. Salary informationWhat you earn is between you and Human Resources, Solovic says. Disclosure indicates you aren’t capable of keeping a confidence.

2. Medical history“Nobody really cares about your aches and pains, your latest operation, your infertility woes or the contents of your medicine cabinet,” Lopeke says. To your employer, your constant medical issues make you seem like an expensive, high-risk employee.

3. GossipWhomever you’re gossiping with will undoubtedly tell others what you said, Solovic says. Plus, if a co-worker is gossiping with you, most likely he or she will gossip about you.

4. Work complaintsConstant complaints about your workload, stress levels or the company will quickly make you the kind of person who never gets invited to lunch, Solovic warns. If you don’t agree with company policies and procedures, address it through official channels or move on.

5. Cost of purchasesThe spirit of keeping up with the Joneses is alive and well in the workplace, Lopeke says, but you don’t want others speculating on the lifestyle you’re living –or if you’re living beyond your salary bracket.

6. Intimate detailsDon’t share intimate details about your personal life. Co-workers can and will use the information against you, Solovic says.

7. Politics or religion“People have strong, passionate views on both topics,” Solovic says. You may alienate a co-worker or be viewed negatively in a way that could impact your career.

8. Lifestyle changesBreakups, divorces and baby-making plans should be shared only if there is a need to know, Lopeke says. Otherwise, others will speak for your capabilities, desires and limitations on availability, whether there is any truth to their assumptions or not.

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Life's Short

B. Free

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ALL OSCAR®, ALL DAY LONG: AMC ENTERTAINMENT® PRESENTS A SINGLE-DAY SHOWING OF ALL FIVE “BEST PICTURE” FILMS

Tickets On Sale Jan. 30; New Discount for AMC MovieWatcher Members
Kansas City, Mo. (Jan. 30, 2009) - AMC Entertainment Inc. (AMC), one of the world's largest and most innovative theatrical exhibition companies, is proud to offer guests the rare opportunity to experience all five motion pictures nominated by the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences for "Best Picture," on one special day.
On Saturday, Feb. 21, the AMC Best Picture ShowcaseSM will take place at approximately 97 AMC theatres in 42 North American markets* (check local listings for availability and show times). Guests can purchase an exclusive AMC Best Picture Showcase All-Day Pass for only $30, or just $25 for AMC MovieWatcher® members. Moviegoers will have the chance to see all five Oscar®-nominated "Best Picture" films and will also receive a large popcorn with unlimited refills for the entire day. This offer is valued at more than $50 and marks the third year of this exclusive event.

The Oscar® "Best Picture" nominees, "Milk," "The Reader," "The Curious Case of Benjamin Button," "Slumdog Millionaire" and "Frost/Nixon," will play in one dedicated auditorium back-to-back throughout the day. Upon arrival to the theatre, guests will receive a souvenir lanyard, which will feature artwork from the five nominated films and give guests the freedom to come and go throughout the event as they please.
Guests can locate a theatre hosting AMC Best Picture Showcase in their area by visiting http://www.amctheatres.com/. Advance ticket sales will be available by noon C.S.T. on Friday, Jan. 30, on a first-come, first-served basis online at http://www.amctheatres.com/ or by visiting the box office or Guest Services area at any theatre hosting the AMC Best Picture Showcase.
AMC Best Picture Showcase schedule (all times local; schedule is the same nationwide):

About AMC Entertainment Inc.Headquartered in Kansas City, Mo., AMC Entertainment Inc. is one of the world's leading theatrical exhibition and out-of-home entertainment companies. With a history of industry leadership and innovation dating back to 1920, the company today serves more than 235 million guests annually through interests in 353 theatres with 5,105 screens in six countries. http://www.amctheatres.com/.
Oscar® is the registered trademark and service mark of the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences.

BEST PICTURE SHOWCASE

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The Chris Brown Update!

Poor lil Ting Ting.....

Kanye tries to make sense of it all, Kanye West, who toured with Rihanna, said on Ryan Seacrest's morning radio show Tuesday morning that the reports of abuse were "devastating."
"I feel like, just as a person, I don't care how famous she is or even if she just worked at McDonald's, that should never happen," West said on the show, which is broadcast on KIIS-FM in Los Angeles. "It should never come to that place." (Assosciated Press)

With all that out the way, here's the facts as we know it...

(1) LAPD has still not officially said that Rihanna, was the victim of Brown's attack early Sunday morning ahead of the Grammy awards, where they were both scheduled to perform. But unnamed police sources have told the Los Angeles Times that Rihanna was and that she was cooperating with police. (reuters)

(2) Rihanna postponed a scheduled concert in Malaysia on Tuesday as Los Angeles police continued their probe of an attack by R&B star Chris Brown on a woman widely believed to be the pop songstress. (reuters)

(3) Wrigley (as in Wrigley Field + Doublemint gum = Major $$$), has suspended ad campaigns featuring Chris Breezy, WAKS-FM, in Cleveland has stopped playing Brown's music until the allegations are resolved. Stations in Pittsburgh and Indianapolis also reportedly pulled Brown's music as well. (Associated Press)

(4) MediaTakeOut.com just caught wind that Rihanna suffered from multiple bruises, contusions, ad bite marks as a result of the Chris Brown incident.Here's how TMZ is reporting it:
Police took pictures of Rihanna's injuries and they are "horrific."As we reported, the photos show major contusions on both sides of the singer's face -- there is serious swelling and bruising. Her lip is split and her nose bloody. We have now confirmed there are bite marks on one of her arms and on several fingers.And we now know this... Rihanna claims Brown struck her with his fists and that's what did the damage. There was no object used in the alleged attack.Rihanna refused treatment at the scene, but before she left cops took photos. We're told the photos alone are "devastating proof of abuse."

(5) A friend of Chris Brown reached out to MediaTakeOut.com, offering an explanation of what went down. Click here for the entire story.

That's all you get for now St. Louis!!!

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