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NEED FLYERS/BUSINESS CARDS PRINTED?


Looks like I received a late Christmas gift. If you're in need of business cards or business card sized flyers I've just been issued a promo code and a great deal. My partners at www.blockbusterprint.com will print up 1000 glossy business cards with whatever designs you want one on both sides, on 15pt card stock and free shipping for only $45

The offer full service printing on flyers, brochures, CD covers and etc; Go to www.blockbusterprint.com and use my promo code @ checkout, (promo code: "TB001") to get free shipping. They also offer price matching. MAKE SURE YOU USE MY PROMO CODE SO THEY KNOW THAT B. FREE IS GETTING THE WORD OUT!!

Spread the word,

we are only as powerful as our network so lets build St. Louis together.

Teddy B. Free

(side note: Not that it really matters; I'm not getting a comission or kick back on this. $45 is pretty inexpensive for dual sided gloss coated cards on a high cardstock. I'm spreading the word, building and strengthing my business network. Its a part of my 2010 movement, if this is useful to just one of you, then my job is done)
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Lil Will Smith (Will & Jada's son) is the New Karate Kid??



Would you go see this??
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WANT TO ADVERTISE WITH WWW.BFREEPAPARAZZI.COM?

Contact: Teddy Blackett
Cell: 718.915.0302 (He is local)
Email: info@bfreepaparazzi.com


(1) Homepage banner package: Headliner banner spot at a cost of $50 per week and require a minimum 2 week commitment. There is one time $50 layout design fee. (Design layout fee is waived if you design your own banner **must meet the dimension criteria**) banner dimensions are 660x311.

(2) Custom Paparazzi Email Blast:Your event will be sent out on with our e-news/announcements to our subscribers. This service cost $25 per email (There is a one time setup fee of $10).

(3) Gallery banner package: What we are offering for banner advertising in our gallery is a rotating horizontal headline banner which flashes multiple ads (maximum advertisers for any given week is 4 advertisers). The cost for that would be $35 per week. If you already have a banner (sized at 864 x 90 pixels), we can upload and link it back to your site or event detail page (if available) in a matter of minutes. If you DO NOT have a banner that's ready to go, I would need to have one designed and there is a $25 banner design fee. * all options require a mandatory 1 week minimum.

(4) Strategic Gallery Placement: We take one of your flyers and include it into our "featured gallery" section. As visitors browse through the pictures of the weekly events they will see your flyer posted as if it was one of the pictures from that event. The cost for that is only $25 per gallery and it includes us posting four of your flyers into the gallery.

(5) Social Networking (Facebook) Blast: Your event will be sent out on with our e-news/announcements to the www.bfreepaparazzi.com facebook group subscribers. This service cost $25 per blast. This also includes mentions in my status updates.

(6) Event Promotion Giveaway Promo: With the purchase of our custom email blast and/or our social networking blast you have the option of purchasing a promo giveaway product at your event. www.bfreepaparazzi.com would then give away prizes from the B Free Paparazzi prize vault. i.e. Movie passes, merchandise, gas cards, gift certificates, and etc; at your event. The cost of the service would be $25 plus any additional cost incurred by obtaining the prizes. (typically the prizes are donate and incur no additional cost)
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Spoken Word Done Well!!

EACH & EVERY THURSDAY,

STL’s Finest Bar & Grill 8021 W. Florissant (The New Northland Shopping Plaza)Doors Open at 7:00 –Show at 8:00 (PROMPT)Hosted By: Abbey The Truth + XplicitMusic By: DJ 76kiD

$5 Cover ($3 w/ the Soul Pass)

$3 Martini’s ALL Night & $1 off appetizer’s from 7PM – 8PM

As always, the BEST Open Mic in the STL!

See You Thursday!
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CAFE SOUL HOLIDAY EDITION

CAFE SOUL 3RD ANNUAL HOLIDAY SPECIAL EDITION.

FRI DEC 18TH 2009 #1 OPEN MIC/LIVE BAND/DJ NEEDLES ON THE 1S & 2S

DOOR 7PM/$5 JC Cognac DRINKS SPECIALS, THE PLACE 2 BEEN SEEN & HEARD/VIP TABLES ALMOST SOLD OUT AND THERES ONLY 1

VIP BOOTHS LEFT/LAST MONTH WAS PACKED GROWN & SEXY LIKE CAFE SOUL DOES IT EVERY 3RD FRIDAY OF THE MONTH @ THE LOFT/CALL 314-504-7405 OR EMAIL ME @ CAFESOULSTL@YAHOO.COM 2DAY!!!!!!!!!
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How you gonna be Pregnant then get PREGNANT AGAIN!!

Original article By LAUREN COX ABC News Medical Unit Sept. 24, 2009



Pregnant woman in Arkansas surprised doctors!!! (Thinks: like Arkansas don't get enuff jokes about "breeding" lol. The woman got pregnant twice in three weeks, but the babies aren't twins.
Doctors successfully located Todd and Julia Grovenburg's growing baby girl Jillian, but then discovered another smaller baby -- what could be Jillian's younger brother -- growing beside her.

Read the full article here
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Grown, Sexy, & Ready for Romance

Did you kno that October is National Caramel Month?

For all you grown and sexy fall enthusiast, I have a lil something that you may appreciate.. Since we are on the vurge of "National Caramel Month" (who comes up w/ this stuff.... friggin commercial observations of ishhh that's released annually) I've found the perfect wine for caramel.


Stone Hill winery (Herman, Mo) makes a wine called "Cream Sherry".. according to their website, Cream Sherry is, "fortified with grape brandy, slowly bake it and then barrel age it for three to five years." They claim that this results in a rich, nutty, caramelized flavor with a beautiful golden color, ideally suited to autumnal indulgences. I don't know about you but that sounded erotic as hell. **lights some candles and calls over that special someone!

Cream Sherry is perfect accompaniment to cookies, pastries and cakes, and especially caramel or chocolate desserts with nuts.

Facts and Stats:

TECHNICAL INFO: Harvested late-September; Alcohol - 19%; Residual Sugar - 9%
TASTING INFO: It possesses the rich, nutty flavor and aroma characteristic of traditional sherry. Great for after dinner by itself or as the perfect accompaniment to caramel or chocolate.

Look for it in ya local grocery spot...

Suggested retail price: $15.99 (500 ml)


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http://www.bfreepaparazzi.com/ has joined forces w/ PATCHES Clothing and various local

organizations to bring you, "PATCHES PARTY IN THE BALLPARK"


This fundraising event will benefit the children of Gateway Homeless Services (GHS). Not only will you raise funds for a great cause, you will also treat the children of GHS to a day at the park. Sunday October 4, 2009 at 1:15pm the St. Louis Cardinals host the Milwaukee Brewers for the final home game of the 2009 season.


We are calling on everyone to participate in this spectacular event; tickets to the game are only $25 which include a hotdog, drink, and t-shirt commemorating the cause. That’s right! You get to see a great game, hang out with your friends, family, and support a great cause all for $25.00! I HAVE PLEDGED TO SELL 20 TICKETS AND I NEED YOUR HELP!




For more information on purchasing your tickets or making a donation please email Teddy Blackett at info@bfreepaparazzi.com. ALL YOU HAVE TO DO TO GET STARTED IS CLICK THE REPLY BUTTON ON THIS EMAIL! We appreciate your interest and hope you will join us in giving a little back to the St. Louis community.
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SHOULD GOVERNMENTS HAVE THE POWER TO BAN DANCE MOVES???

Good Morning people,


I had an interesting conversation this morning. The topic on deck was Jamaican slang, dances, and music. While chopping it up my people i introduced her to one of my favorite songs, "Dagga Dat" by Reggae artist, Bragga. (heavy in the rotation on my iPhone) I quickly shot her a copy of the youtube link to checkout the vid and realized she could barely understand the lyrics... Doing what i do, i looked up an article and explained what the song was really about.. Needless to say, it was an interesting convo so i've decided to share what i found.
Original article found:
@ http://www.jamaican-slang.com/2009/06/18/daggering-is-now-banned-in-jamaica/ Posted by Jah Admin Posted in Random "Ting", Rastafari Posted on 18-06-2009 Email This Post

Right now in Jamaica, the ban on “daggarin” is a big issue. For people living “a foreign” (abroad/overseas) this is probably news to you. But before we get into the details, don’t you want to know what is “DAGGARIN?”
No, daggering is not some insane stabbing done by Jamaicans. And no it is not a Jamaican form of sword fighting …pause. The Jamaican Broadcasting Commission, who banned “daggarin” in the first place defines it as “a colloquial term used in dancehall culture as a reference to hardcore sex or what is popularly referred to as dry sex, or the activities of persons engaged in the public simulation of various sexual acts and positions”.

The truth is, I can try to tell you about daggering or you can actually witness it with your own eyes. Here is a video of “daggarin” done by emerging dancehall artist, Aidonia. read


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B. Free Paparazzi - Vendor Of Choice

Article by: CoCo.
visit her @ cocothephotographer.com

I had the distinctive honor of meeting Teddy Blackett of B. Free Paparazzi last summer. Teddy was immediately an influential young man. Standing some odd inches over 6 feet tall with a sexy bald head and a warm personality, I was amazed.

Teddy started B. Free Paparazzi originally as a movie group that would venture to local theaters as a group and even take a group photo once the movie let out. Now, his brand has grown significantly over the last year. You can find Teddy just about at any event snapping candid in color and in black and white with his Nikon DSLR. The photos are ready and posted on his website www.bfreepaparazzi.com in less than 24 hours. Hell, it's the same night 9 times out of 10!

The first event I attended that Teddy coordinated was Simple Pleasures. This event was a break-the-ice/wine tasting event at the new upscale venue called The Inspot Dessert Bar and Lounge. A Stone Hill Winery Representative came out with delicious samples while music flowed and cups overflowed. It was one heck of a night. Most definitely a night to remember for sure!



Lately, Teddy has so busy with snapping events and building his brand. He has also been nominated to ALIVE Magazine's Sexy and Successful search for the most desirable movers and shakers in the St. Louis area. The Sexy and Successful candidate is young and professional with the total package of being sexy, savvy, and successful. And clearly Teddy is just that! So if you are reading this article, please take the time out to vote for Teddy at http://www.alivemag.com/sexyandsuccessful/. I have voted for him since I got wind of this and I am encouraging you to do the same!


I had the honor of requesting an eInterview May 30, 2009 to virtually catch up with Teddy and to see how things are going! Here's how the eInterview went!:

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CoCo.:
How did you come up with the name,logo and concept for B Free Paparazzi?

Teddy:
My name is Teddy Blackett, so I've always been Teddy B, always been a free spirit and after a difficult relationship I realized the importance of keeping that spirit alive. As far as the paparazzi I've always had a nack for taking candid photos that told a story. My friends started calling me the paparazzi cuz I'd always be the guy taking pictures when no one expected it.

CoCo.:
How long have you been doing event photography?

Teddy:
My first class was in 1993. Then in college in 2001, bought my 1st DSLR (digital single lens reflex)in August of 2008.

CoCo.:
Everyone that knows you knows that you also host opening movie nights at local movie theaters. How do you find the time for it all?

Teddy:
My friends!!!! Without there support I wouldn't be able to do any of it. Technology also helps, emails, credit cards, telephone transactions, and and the Internet make time management more manageable, LOL!

**SEE THE FULL INTERVIEW**

http://www.cocothephotographer.com/

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So Why am I Single in St. Louis?

I've been asked this question countless of times and every time I never give the full answer... Hell I find a way to give a polite and politically correct answer, but you know what? I don't feel like sugarcoating it anymore....

I'm single because I'm not APPRECIATED... especially the way I FEEL I should be.... I know it sounds a little "whoa is me" and bandwagon-ish but I can only speak my truth....Just like men do things to show their love females do the same thing. I'm a realist and I understand how a man's mind works... A man needs to be that provider, protector, AND PURSUER!!!! If he's not all 3 then he's not taking you seriously... I stand on that belief hands down... If you don't call me on a regular basis to see how I'm doing... curious as to what's going on in my world your not interested and your number gets deleted out of my phone. I have no time to waste on a person who doesn't deserve my time....

I've had TOO MANY conversations with GOOD women that just get so frustrated with the men in their life b/c ratchets come a dime a dozen.... I've personally never had a man cheat on me but I understand my girls' situations... I know everyone's not perfect but men hold to much power in most instances.... I don't let it get that far to where a man could do in that that bad..I understand how a man's mind work... I will give only so much rope to hang yourself and then your number is deleted... I know my worth... If you don't show me you know it too then you're dismissed... Flat out... There are PLENTY OF OTHER FISH IN THE SEA that are patiently waiting... No bragging at all... Again I say "I SPEAK MY OWN TRUTH" ..I often use some of my girl's situations and my past ones to make myself stronger in my stance on why I'm single... AND will proudly profess it............... I currently date..... yes.... BUT FOR THE BENEFIT OF ME... no one else....

When I want to be bothered... that's just it... I'm bothered.... I don't feel the need to have to answer to any man about what I do, where I go... or who I hang with.... I come and go as I please and my life has been so much simpler and easier now that I have a different mindset....

I'm not looking for anything serious for the simple fact that men in 2009 exercise their right to date excessively... Why can't I.... In almost all aspects of my life I'm a human sponge... I soak up information that is valuable for me and my assent to greatness... why ignore this area... it makes no sense to me when some women ignore the benefits of being single just b/c they want some constant penis w/o being labeled a hoe.... I've heard so many women say shit like this it makes me sick... I'm not saying sex every man in the club but to get in a situation just b/c u want sex is ridiculous and I've known females like that... to need a man constantly and it really don't matter who he is characterwise is disgusting and embarrassing to me... If you're not sexing every man you hang with why not date a few ... Fuck that stereotype shit... I'm over it and I'm tired of having to worry about what other's think... You don't pay shit or take the classes or seek the major at Saint Louis University SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO..... you have no say on my character or shit I do... flat out....

But back to the main topic....

I'm single b/c I've learned the art that men have passed along to their sons and grandsons.... The true singleness mindest is a mothaf*&^^ to have.... And it's's so empowering and intoxicating all at the same time.... To be able to answer whomever whenever you feel like it and having no remorse on sending someone straight to voicemail is too invigorating. I see why men do it... Now I know some may read this and think that "Oh my gosh.... she is missing out on so much"... but guess what babes... I did the relationship thing... for 3 years... it was both wonderful and horrible... I know what it's like.... I prefer this path at this point in life ... No I'm not bitter... I love a support relationships... But in my own situation I am very content and happy in this state... it allows me to concentrate in on me and mine....

Now the people I tagged are just people I feel would appreciate this... Nothing more or less... I tagged no one that this note is personally directed towards.... just some thoughts...
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B Free Apparel AKA "B. Wear", is St. Louis really ready!!

Prototype # 1
Not really sure i'm gonna put the website on the butt, I'm thinking of just putting, "Life's Short, B. Free" or maybe "Paparazzi" or "I heart B. Free". I'm in the research phase so its all wide open!
COMMENT BELOW AND LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK!



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http://www.bfreepaparazzi.com/

presents the

LME's Summer Reign Ozark Weekend Event Gallery!
LME thanks you all for the love and support of the Summer Reign Event Series!

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Special thanks to B Free Paparazzi's very on Nick Powell and special guest Paparazzi's Theon Richards & Chaddwick Dennis for assisting in capturing this mind blowing event!! Stay tuned for more http://www.bfreepaparazzi.com/ photography powered events and be sure to check out http://www.lme-stl.com/ for the latest from LME

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The City Forum & BFreePaparazzi.com Present…
THE RULES of THE GAME 2
"Grown Folks' Business"

A 90-min Town Hall Forum to DECIDE the Rules of DATING & RELATIONSHIP
Scenarios in St. Louis followed by…
A GAME NIGHT
featuring your favorite party, board, & video games, (please bring a game to share),
& a 90’s R&B/Urban Music Listening Party.

Hosted by: The Hon. Masherrl Conyer and Barry C. Neal
http://thecityforum.blogspot.com/
Saturday, Aug. 8, 7:30pm
Legacy Books and Café - 5249 Delmar, St. Louis, MO
(please help by patronizing Legacy to thank it for supporting TCiF)
Admit: $5 ($7 after 9pm), 21+ only
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NEW STL NIGHTCLUB - GRAND OPENING DELAYS

Original article courtesy of DeLux Magazine - http://www.delux-mag.com/2009/08/31/1194/#comment-104

There was a delay with the Grand Opening of STL's newest club, "Karma". According to industry insiders, "No one worry, my man SLIM has it under control"

You know how it can be dealing with the red tape. But hold tight. Save that money you were gonna spend that night, put another check or 2 with it and when them doors open you’ll be ready to drop some BIG TYMER change!!!

read the full story at http://www.delux-mag.com/
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B Free's Free B's

Hello good people, since we all seem to be pinching our peso's these days i've decided to post this blog in hopes of taking a lil strain off ya pocket books & wallets. Please comment and contribute addtional locations as you see fit.


Houlihan’s Restaurant
1085 N Mason Rd, Creve Coeur - 314.469.1167


In addition to offering $6 appetizers from mon-fri 4:30-close & all day Saturday & Sunday, Houlihan’s Creve Coeur also offer $1 mini burgers each and every Monday (at the bar during happy hour) as well as1/2 off house cocktails and draft beer & Half price bottles of wine (tues all day). The Free B’s don’t stop there, if you sign up for there mailing list you also receive a coupon for a free appetizer & a free entrée on your birthday. Though these are listed at the Creve Coeur location they may be valid at other locations so be sure to ask if you happen to be at a Houlihan’s.


Yemanja Brasil Restaurant
2900 Missouri Ave., St. Louis, 314.771.7457

Yemanja’s Brasil Restaurant, another Benton Park jewel, has a wonderful Friday night happy hour (5p.m to 7p.m) During happy hour, Yemanja offers a buffet-style sampling of their appetizer menu. If you’re looking for some great tasting food with an international flair that not too far from the familiar, this is the spot for you. P.S. keep and eye open for the chicken wings, they are truly out of this world.

Drunken Fish Restaurant
1 Maryland Plaza Dr St. Louis, 314.367.4222

The Drunken Fish in the Central West End offer a ridiculous happy hour on Monday - Friday from 5 - 7 pm. They have 1/2 price martinis, 1/2 price exotic drinks, $2 bottled beer, $1 infused sake shots and They also have 1/2 price makimono rolls $1 sushi pieces and $1 off appetizers. Though this is a great happy hour as is, on Wednesdays they’ve decided to sweeten the deal, with the purchase of any of the previously mentioned drink specials you will receive a ticket which you can redeem for free appetizers at there happy hour buffet.


Frazer’s Restaurant & Lounge
1811 Pestalozzi St., St. Louis, 314.773.8646

Frazer’s restaurant & lounge is located southwest of Soulard, in South City’s Benton Park area. Every Tuesday Frazer’s offers a .complimentary appetizer buffet during their happy hour (from 5 to 7 p.m.), typically the buffet offers anything from hot wings, to chips and dip, and sometimes they may surprise you with there delicious variety of kabobs.




Scape Restaurant & Lounge
48 Maryland Plaza, St. Louis, 314.361.7227

Though some may consider Scape a bit on the pricey side it is a little known fact that Scape offers a variety of mid week specials. On Tuesdays, Wednesdays, & Thursdays from 5 to 7 p.m., diners are treated to a free appetizer bar. Along with a variety of hor’dourves Scape also boast happy hour specials such as $2 domestic drafts, $3 imports, and $4 mixed drinks.
These selections are only the tip of the iceberg. We here at http://www.bfreepaparazzi.blogspot.com/ encourage you to add and/or expand on any locations we may have missed. As a matter of fact the saucemagazine.com is running an article which list some of these same restaurant and there is a section where they point out happy hours w/ specials less than $5... check them out at http://www.saucemagazine.com/
LEAVE YA COMMENTS, ADD YA SUGGESTIONS, AND LETS CONTINUE TO SHARE THE HOOK UPS!!! (Don't spell check me!!!! i don't care, lol)
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Rules Of The Game

"Dating, Relationships, Marriages, hell even being single can be hard work. When issues come up in the dating Game (and yes it can be a game) a lot of time we don't know what to do. Tell us What would you do in these 'Rules Of The Game' Scenario's?

RULES SCENARIO #1: When should a woman begin contributing financially to romantic dates?
A) Only if she invites the other person out.
B) Anytime.
C) By the 3rd Date.
D) Never.

RULES SCENARIO #2: Your spouse/fiancee now hates clubbing, dancing, and random socializing in STL. The prefer to be a homebody, but you still love it! Do you:
A) Continue clubbing without them. This is who you are.
B) Endlessly coax them into coming out with you by bartering favors.
C) Hang it up. Stay home forever.

'RULES' SCENARIO #3: Ladies, you are ready to become intimate for the 1st time with your new beau. Do you:
A) Put it down on him, WWE-style: no holds barred! I got dat 'good-good'!
B) Hold back a little bit on the freakiness. Save some for later.
C) He ain't gettin' any til marriage. If he liked it he shoulda put a ring on it...

'RULES' SCENARIO #4: A random cutie contacts you on Facebook/Twitter and starts trying to HOLLA. You are intrigued. Do you:
A. Ignore the flirtations. You don't know them from a can o' paint!
B. Engage in a prolonged cyber-message courtship, possibly ending in meeting at some party.
C. get it cracking after a few messages. Set up a dinner-date and see what happens."

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Nightclub Forced to Cancel Event Based on Race Or Was it Just Good Business??


I recieved a message in my inbox yesterday which told me to go and read a friend facebook status. His status stated, "Public Service Announcement: We have been in meetings with SLeek & Lumiere Casino for 3hrs fighting for Friday Night. So until further notice the event will be canceled... We would like to thank everyone for supporting "Soul Stylz" new location to be announced soon...if u have any questions feel free to call 314.497.3861"

there was 37 comments posted to this status and the more i read the more angry i became... here are some of the comments;

Cornell: at 3:43pm May 27
Yeah the Casino seem to think to many black faces are a bad look for the location

Comella: at 3:44pm May 27
R u serious Is that what they really said

Shaedi: at 3:45pm May 27 via Facebook Mobile
in their world,they're ABSOLUTELY right*

Jess; at 3:49pm May 27
New Casino, only fun downtown attraction...walk in ALL black people walkin around-scares off their crowd??? hmmm seems like they kinda got a point. BUT! I HAVENT HAD THAT MUCH FUN IN A WHILE LIKE I DID LAST FRIDAY! But 3 hour meeting...geesh!

Cornell: at 4:05pm May 27
yeah 3hrs, all about white and black events that are hosted in the casino.

I posted my facebook status and told everyone to go and ready cornells status and at 245am people were still posting comments
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http://www.bfreepaparazzi.com/

Date: Friday, May 22, 2009 at 8:00pm

Location: MOOLAH THEATER & LOUNGE
3821 Lindell Blvd
Saint Louis, MO

MapQuest

RSVP @ info@bfreepaparazzi.com

FOR REVIEWS FROM THE SNEAK PREVIEW SCREENING OF TERMINATOR SEE THE COMMENTS
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Which ST. LOUIS LOCAL/HOOD CELEB IS MOST LIKELY TO LEAK THERE OWN SEX TAPE TO TMZ..


YOU KNOW EVERYBODY WANTS THEIR 15MINUTES...

COMMENT ANONYMOUSLY BELOW!!!
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Woman Seriously Injured by a Sex Toy Mishap!!!


Ok, Ok, Ok,


Why did I get and invite to one of my good friends bachelor party and "saw" this trick performed live???? I remember thinking, "this is some crazy Sh!#t, I hope theres no blade in that saw". Looking around the room, all the fellas was acting like this was common place and seeing as "exotic dancer routines" aren't really my area of expertise... I politely tipped the ladies on my friends behalf, had a couple of beers, and watched the show.....


Fast forward to this morning's news!!!!!!!


LEXINGTON PARK, Md. (WUSA) - A Southern Maryland woman was seriously injured in a mishap involving a sex toy over the weekend. The case was first reported on TheBayNet.com, and Saint Mary's county public safety sources confirmed the information to 9NEWS NOW.

The accident was reported to local fire and rescue personnel about 1:30 a.m. on March 7, from an address on Rogers Drive. The man who made the 911 call said he had placed a sex toy over a saber saw blade, and then used the power tool on his partner, but the blade cut through the plastic and injured the woman.


The victim, a 27-year-old woman, was reportedly injured and bleeding. She was later flown to Prince George's hospital center by Maryland State Police helicopter.

County law enforcement officials who were familiar with the media report about this case said, although they were not initially called to investigate the incident, they would likely follow up to determine it was just an accident and involved consentual behavior.


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Soulstylz Modern Luxury Event

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NEW ORLEANS — A Louisiana woman is accused of trading two young children in her care for a pet cockatoo and $175 cash from a couple who had been trying for years to have their own child, authorities said Thursday.

Donna Greenwell, 53, a long-haul trucker with an arrest record from Pitkin, is charged with aggravated kidnapping, along with would-be adoptive parents Paul J. Romero, 46, and Brandy Lynn Romero, 27, of Evangeline Parish.

"The Romeros had good intentions from what we see," said Keith Dupre, a detective with the Evangeline Parish Sheriff's Office. "They really wanted to take care of the kids. The kids were well-dressed and seemed to be treated good by the Romero family."

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DEAR DR. B. FREE

Sooo, I have been talking to this guy since almost a year. He is from out of town and is mad cool. He is such a gentleman, the sweetest person ever met and he truly cares for me.I honestly believe he wants the best for me.

I enjoy talking to him and he makes me laugh and whatnot. However, there is one thing missing. You know, (well you may not; "Bow Chica Bow Wannnn)in the beginning of a relationship all you want to do is talk to that person (even though I'm not much of a phone talker) and all you can do is think about that person. Like that's a feeling you are supposed to get when something is new.

Well, I felt that for maybe the first two weeks of this little thing, but I feel it NO MORE. AND.... and on top of that I have ABSOLUTELY no desire to do anything sexual with him... AT ALL. Not to say he is not a handsome guy, but I just don't feel that way about him. I feel bad because everybody wants me to be with him andI just don't feel it..its just not there. And my fam is really feeling him from all of the good things he has done for me. I'm so confused about it all and don't know what to do. Should I say how I feel about him now?... or...wait for awhile and see if these feelings for him sprout up out of the ground? The only thing is its almost a catch 22...either i tell him now and possibly hurt his feelings or wait til later and hurt his feelings even more.

What should I do...? I guess I'm just thinking about if another guy that's truly a good guy and cares about me is ever gonna come around again. Go easy on me...it's hard for me to express my feelings and this whole email is a bit much for Me

Ms Catch 22,
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Fat Tuesday Happy Hour @ Joseph's

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FreeTime - WinterFresh III

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"Second Showing Saturday" For Madea Goes to Jail!

"Second Showing Saturday"
For Madea Goes to Jail!
Since the movie comes out friday the 20th and many of us don't like the hustle and bustle of premier night. http://www.bfreepaparazzi.blogspot.com/ will be hosting a "Second Showing Saturday". This and RSVP exclusive event, we will have discounted tickets, and only a limited amount tickets will be reserved. RSVP's are 1st come 1st serve and once we have reached the our limit no more tickets will be sold.

Email mailto:info@bfreepaparazzi.comto RVSP & to recieve showing details for this event.

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Keep Your Bidness Out of the Office!!!

Good Morning STL,


One of my co-workers runs her mouth constantly about her personal life, other people, and pretty much any and everything that crosses her mind. Not matter how much she gets confronted, disciplined, or "cussed out" she always seems to find ways to cross that line. Whilst listen to one of her tyraids i went online to see if there was some rules and regulations on this

topic.... Here's what i found...

13 things to never share or discuss with your co-workers.
1. Salary informationWhat you earn is between you and Human Resources, Solovic says. Disclosure indicates you aren’t capable of keeping a confidence.
2. Medical history“Nobody really cares about your aches and pains, your latest operation, your infertility woes or the contents of your medicine cabinet,” Lopeke says. To your employer, your constant medical issues make you seem like an expensive, high-risk employee.
3. GossipWhomever you’re gossiping with will undoubtedly tell others what you said, Solovic says. Plus, if a co-worker is gossiping with you, most likely he or she will gossip about you.
4. Work complaintsConstant complaints about your workload, stress levels or the company will quickly make you the kind of person who never gets invited to lunch, Solovic warns. If you don’t agree with company policies and procedures, address it through official channels or move on.
5. Cost of purchasesThe spirit of keeping up with the Joneses is alive and well in the workplace, Lopeke says, but you don’t want others speculating on the lifestyle you’re living –or if you’re living beyond your salary bracket.
6. Intimate detailsDon’t share intimate details about your personal life. Co-workers can and will use the information against you, Solovic says.
7. Politics or religion“People have strong, passionate views on both topics,” Solovic says. You may alienate a co-worker or be viewed negatively in a way that could impact your career.
8. Lifestyle changesBreakups, divorces and baby-making plans should be shared only if there is a need to know, Lopeke says. Otherwise, others will speak for your capabilities, desires and limitations on availability, whether there is any truth to their assumptions or not.
For the entire article please visit MSN's career builder site <-------- click there.

Stay Tuned for some more late breaking blogging STL
Life's Short


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ALL OSCAR®, ALL DAY LONG: AMC ENTERTAINMENT® PRESENTS A SINGLE-DAY SHOWING OF ALL FIVE “BEST PICTURE” FILMS


Tickets On Sale Jan. 30; New Discount for AMC MovieWatcher Members
Kansas City, Mo. (Jan. 30, 2009) - AMC Entertainment Inc. (AMC), one of the world's largest and most innovative theatrical exhibition companies, is proud to offer guests the rare opportunity to experience all five motion pictures nominated by the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences for "Best Picture," on one special day.
On Saturday, Feb. 21, the AMC Best Picture ShowcaseSM will take place at approximately 97 AMC theatres in 42 North American markets* (check local listings for availability and show times). Guests can purchase an exclusive AMC Best Picture Showcase All-Day Pass for only $30, or just $25 for AMC MovieWatcher® members. Moviegoers will have the chance to see all five Oscar®-nominated "Best Picture" films and will also receive a large popcorn with unlimited refills for the entire day. This offer is valued at more than $50 and marks the third year of this exclusive event.

The Oscar® "Best Picture" nominees, "Milk," "The Reader," "The Curious Case of Benjamin Button," "Slumdog Millionaire" and "Frost/Nixon," will play in one dedicated auditorium back-to-back throughout the day. Upon arrival to the theatre, guests will receive a souvenir lanyard, which will feature artwork from the five nominated films and give guests the freedom to come and go throughout the event as they please.
Guests can locate a theatre hosting AMC Best Picture Showcase in their area by visiting http://www.amctheatres.com/. Advance ticket sales will be available by noon C.S.T. on Friday, Jan. 30, on a first-come, first-served basis online at http://www.amctheatres.com/ or by visiting the box office or Guest Services area at any theatre hosting the AMC Best Picture Showcase.
AMC Best Picture Showcase schedule (all times local; schedule is the same nationwide):

About AMC Entertainment Inc.Headquartered in Kansas City, Mo., AMC Entertainment Inc. is one of the world's leading theatrical exhibition and out-of-home entertainment companies. With a history of industry leadership and innovation dating back to 1920, the company today serves more than 235 million guests annually through interests in 353 theatres with 5,105 screens in six countries. http://www.amctheatres.com/.
Oscar® is the registered trademark and service mark of the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences.

BEST PICTURE SHOWCASE

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The Chris Brown Update!

Poor lil Ting Ting.....

Kanye tries to make sense of it all, Kanye West, who toured with Rihanna, said on Ryan Seacrest's morning radio show Tuesday morning that the reports of abuse were "devastating."
"I feel like, just as a person, I don't care how famous she is or even if she just worked at McDonald's, that should never happen," West said on the show, which is broadcast on KIIS-FM in Los Angeles. "It should never come to that place." (Assosciated Press)

With all that out the way, here's the facts as we know it...

(1) LAPD has still not officially said that Rihanna, was the victim of Brown's attack early Sunday morning ahead of the Grammy awards, where they were both scheduled to perform. But unnamed police sources have told the Los Angeles Times that Rihanna was and that she was cooperating with police. (reuters)

(2) Rihanna postponed a scheduled concert in Malaysia on Tuesday as Los Angeles police continued their probe of an attack by R&B star Chris Brown on a woman widely believed to be the pop songstress. (reuters)

(3) Wrigley (as in Wrigley Field + Doublemint gum = Major $$$), has suspended ad campaigns featuring Chris Breezy, WAKS-FM, in Cleveland has stopped playing Brown's music until the allegations are resolved. Stations in Pittsburgh and Indianapolis also reportedly pulled Brown's music as well. (Associated Press)

(4) MediaTakeOut.com just caught wind that Rihanna suffered from multiple bruises, contusions, ad bite marks as a result of the Chris Brown incident.Here's how TMZ is reporting it:
Police took pictures of Rihanna's injuries and they are "horrific."As we reported, the photos show major contusions on both sides of the singer's face -- there is serious swelling and bruising. Her lip is split and her nose bloody. We have now confirmed there are bite marks on one of her arms and on several fingers.And we now know this... Rihanna claims Brown struck her with his fists and that's what did the damage. There was no object used in the alleged attack.Rihanna refused treatment at the scene, but before she left cops took photos. We're told the photos alone are "devastating proof of abuse."

(5) A friend of Chris Brown reached out to MediaTakeOut.com, offering an explanation of what went down. Click here for the entire story.

That's all you get for now St. Louis!!!
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If you think your one night stand story was crazy!!!!

One-night stand man wakes to
find lover has carved her name into his arm

By Daily Mail ReporterLast updated at 1:58 PM on 05th February 2009

A drunken fling ended in disaster for a man who woke up to find his lover's name carved into his arm. Dominique Fisher, 22, used a Stanley knife to write her name on Wayne Robinson's upper arm. She inflicted the injuries on the 24-year-old at her home in Blackburn, Lancashire.





Mr Robinson woke to find his body decorated with a star on his back, 'Dominique' written on his upper right arm, and numerous slash marks on his left arm and shoulder.

He told police he had drunk vodka and taken Valium and was not awake during the incident on the night of June 14 last year.

Mr Robinson said he panicked when he woke up and took a taxi back to his home in Fleetwood, Lancashire.

He said: 'I went to her place for sex, not to be tattoed. I can't believe she did this to me and I hate her.




'When I woke I was covered in blood. Dominique was snoring. I just had to get out of there. I didn't even wake her to ask what she'd done.' 'I'm scarred for life,' he told The Sun. 'I wish I'd ........................................

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The Chris Brown Update

Here's the deal St. Louis,

A lot of gossip sites are posting the "scoop" on the Chris Brown/Rhianna situation. Here's the real deal according to Associated Press;

Los Angeles Police are investigating events that took place early Sunday at the annual pre-Grammy party hosted by Clive Davis. The official police report states that, "Brown and longtime girlfriend, pop superstar Rihanna, were seen happily sitting together" and "Later that evening, "officers received a 911 call about an incident in which a woman accused Brown of hurting her.

Authorities have not identified who that woman was, citing confidentiality for victims of domestic abuse."
AP Special Correspondent Linda Deutsch contributed to this report.

Now rumor also has it that the "woman" is Rhianna and the reason the argument happened in the first place is that Chris was confronting RiRi about giving him herpes. Like always, that is just what the rumor mill is burning with. Nothing has been confirmed. We here at the blogspot have yet to find any credible witnesses, medical reports, or supporting data to confirm or deny the rumor....

Sorry STL, that's all ya gonna get for now..
WHAT DO YOU THINKS STL, WHAT'S YOUR OPINION? LEAVE A COMMENT!
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Love Forum & SpeakEasy After-Set

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TGIHH @ JOSEPH'S & Ladies Night @ 609

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Friday the 13th Takes over Groove Theory Thursdays

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Exotic dancer set on fire outside LA bar

The Associated Press

LOS ANGELES -- An exotic dancer was set on fire outside the club where she worked early Thursday, burning more than 60 percent of her body, police said. They were searching for two suspects.


(Not actual photo)


A woman and a man called the 27-year-old dancer outside around 1 a.m. and then doused her with a flammable liquid next to the Babes & Beer sports club in the San Fernando Valley, police said. The dancer ran back inside and patrons came to her aid, police said.



Click here for the rest of the article.


This combination of photos released by the Los Angeles Police Department shows attempted murder suspects Rianne Therialut-Odom, 27, left, and Nathaniel Petrillo, 22, who allegedly doused a female dancer with a flammable liquid and set her ablaze early Thursday, Feb. 5, 2009, in The Tarzana section of Los Angeles. The unidentified victim, a 27-year-old mother of two, was in grave condition after being burned over 60 percent of her body, Deputy Chief Michel Moore said. - AP Photo

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presents


If you've been out to any B. Free dinner conversation events you're well aware of the variety of topics we discuss. This event will epitomize that same energy and incorporate great food, great company, and great conversations. Step out side of your normal Saturday clubbing routine and come sip on some wine, network and enjoy adult conversation.

Stay tuned for the B. Free Appreciation Party is coming soon to an event page near you!

Life's Short,

B. Free,
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SoulStage - House of Comedy - 02.04.2009

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Woman! Do you hear yourself??

Dear B. Free,

I'm not sure if you noticed the excessive amount of notes, bulletins, and email forwards going around the social networking scene as of late. One of the most popular has been the "25 Things" note. This is a note where you list 25 things about yourself that your friends may/may not know.

I've been "inspired" to create a list of "Lame A$$ excuses" that I am tired of hearing come out of womens mouths. The intent of this list is not to make the divide between genders grow nor to be ignorant. My goal here is to simulate some honest communication.


Mr. Incognito Jinkinz


1. “There are no good men around” [as she’s sitting there eating a meal I’ve cooked for her..and not microwave meal either]

2. I just want to be friends.. but can you cook dinner for me again.

3. You’re the type of man a woman dreams of, I just never thought I would meet a guy like you, and I’m not sure I’m ready

4. I get bored easily [talking as we’re, Ice skating, at the driving range, camping, at an art gallery, or any number of other creative and fun activities]

5. I didn’t have a good father figure in my life and so now I don’t know how to treat a good man.

6. I’m used to men treating me bad, so I don’t know how to handle you being nice to me.

7. My ex’s didn’t know to communicate, so I’m not used to you wanting to have a meaningful conversation with me.

8. I’m confused, meaning I’m still kind of dealing with my Ex who calls from time to time.

9.I’m not ready to give up my male friends because you’re all special to me.

10. There’s a whole world out there to discover. Too many men to date and too little time

11.I don’t think you’re ready for a woman like me

12. You pay too much attention to me and it scares me

13. I wish you would do something wrong (ex: cheat) so that I could have a reason for letting you go

14. I’m not ready to be in a relationship but I don’t want another woman to have you either.

15. I sabotage relationships, Im afraid of being hurt, I’m happy being single (whilst complaining bout not having a man)..

**Ladies & Gents, though these are stereotypical they do contain some truth. Lets please refrain from taking ourselves too seriously.**

Thoughts? Comments? Feedback? who's game to jump in w/ both feet!!!?
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Ladies Night Pictures @ Modai (01.30.2009)

Do you want to download your picture? Save it for use w/ myspace, facebook, and other social networking groups? Just click on the slideshow and enter into my Picasa Gallery..

Don't forget to check out the next B Free Paparazzi Event, go to: www.bfreepaparazzi.com

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Serial Monogomy vs Whorish Relations

Hola Paparazzi People,

Thanks for tuning in. I stole the phrase "Serial Monogomy" from a friend of mine. He used it to describe the fact that one of our mutual friends is either in single homebody mode or he's in a relationship dating hard core on the verge of looking like he's married. Seeing as our mutual friend lands these rock solid relationships that last for a while, we coined him a serial monogomist.

However, in this article the phrase as i'm choosing to refers to people who hop from relationship to relationship and commit sexual acts right off the bat and just because they're are in a "relationship" this is considered (by many) to be ok. If you disagree by all means comment on it, but know you know someone or known someone who's doing it and you know someone who's thinks its ok to do. (add up ya someones and mulitply it by the population of your city and see what you get)

On the other you have folks who do the same type of risque behavior but because they don't claim the "relationship" they are talked about in harsher manner. It almost seems as if the illusion of beingin a relationship trumphs being honest about what you are and what you do.

Personally, i've lived and witnessed people who operated on both sides of this equation and will take that stance as devils advocate. What do you think people, does having the title give you the moral high ground or will over all logic dictate you think differently...

(Submitted by me, 2009)
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What kind of Relationship Do You Really Want??

In response to a previous blog, "Can we be more than friends? Why the Phuck Not?", we've recieved some serious feedback on what seems to be a very hot topic. Instead hashing it out behind the scenes in the comment section, we've put it front and center... Whats your take on this point of view?

I was the girl that heard "I do not want to be in a relationship right now" and ignored it. However, I ignored it because of the huge amounts of time we spent getting to know each other and the intimate conversations we were having (nothing physical or sexual guys.) It was as if we were building a relationship and when it got serious enough for me to bring up the talk again -- Where is this going? he would bring back the "but I told you I didn't want a relationship."

Here's what I learned from it. When a man says he does not want to be in a relationship, women don't fool yourselves just keep it moving. There are so many other men out there who are willing to make a commitment to you, just keep it moving. If his situation changes and you want to give him the time of day again go ahead but I have learned that where some women go back on their word, men don't and what they say is usually what they mean. Don't stick around because you think eventually he will realize what a good catch you are and change his mind. Bad idea-- Because in the end you will only be hurting you.

As for men, understand women a little more. Women are emotional beings and if you say you do not want to be in a relationship yet you do more than friends do...you know: start calling her honey, sweetheart, boo etc or talk to her into the wee hours of the morning...The signals you are sending to her reads that you want more. The more time you spend with her, the more she likes you thus the more she believes the situation might change.

What amazes me is that a man can tell when a woman is interested in him (more than a friendship) and you know you don't want anything else yet still embraces all that she does. Just because you said at the beginning that you were not ready for a relationship does not mean that you never have to have that talk again. I think men also have a duty to not accept gifts, don't go out on those dinner dates she sets up, don't go out to the movies etc..etc....And I am only talking about a situation where it is obvious that a woman clearly wants more and the man does not. If that is the case, yes I am saying don't hang out with her as much. Eventually then she will move on. I didn't want to mention this but don't state your point up front yet lead her on after. And leading her on is accepting everything she gives and always having these one on one dates
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www.bfreepaparazzi.com's next event

THE FRIDAY THE 13TH MOVIE PREMIERE & PREMIERE PARTY
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Stay tuned for the details on the premiere party. Early RSVP'ing is suggested. RSVP @ teddy@bfreepaparazzi.com

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Black face pastries: 'Drunken "N-word" Cookies' (file this one under: WTF!!)

"Drunken Negro Face" Cookies On Sale at Greenwich Village Bakery. Article posted on The Gothamist by John Del Signore in


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At at a time when any decent baker should have been selling racially harmonious black and white cookies by the truckload, one Greenwich Village bakery popular with celebrities and shows like Sex and the City has outraged neighbors by selling a "Drunken Negro Face" cookie in, um, "honor" of President Obama. [Video below.] A shocked customer tells My Fox NY that Ted Kefalinos, proprietor of Lafayette French Pastry, asked her, "Would you like some drunken negro heads to go with your coffee? They're in honor of our new president. He's following in the same path of Abraham Lincoln; he will get his."

Later, her friend stopped by the bakery and said Kefalinos corrected her about the name of the cookies—they're actually drunken "N-word" cookies. She says the backwards baker then repeated the dark suggestion that, like Lincoln, President Obama "will get what's coming to him." Go Secret Service, go!

And it gets worse when Fox's Arnold Diaz goes into the store with a camera and microphone to confront Kefalinos, who suddenly makes Joe the Plumber look like a Rhodes scholar. "I called them Drunken Negro Heads. What's the problem with that?" Kefalinos asks the newscaster with a smirk. "On Inauguration Day I thought it would be cool to change the name to Obama Heads. I just changed it for the day." We suppose Burning Cross Bananas Foster was too complicated to mass-produce.

Kefalinos denies intimating that Obama would be assassinated, and insists that the cookie is "not unflattering. I think it's a fun face... And anyone who says anything else should be ashamed of themselves." Besides, nobody got upset about the "Dead Geese Bread" he sold after the recent Hudson River plane crash. (We're NOT making that up.) Also, Kefalinos insists he can't be racist because, for one thing, "my brother-in-law, he's Cuban." Below, behold the breathtaking train wreck of racist ignorance.

UPDATE: We just spoke with Kefalinos on the phone and he remains utterly oblivious, telling us, "This whole thing was blown out of proportion." He says he's sold out of the "Drunken Negro Cakes" and doesn't plan to make anymore, despite the fact that many customers have been requesting them (he claims). When asked whether he understands that most African-Americans find the word "negro" offensive, Kefalinos explains, "It's a French word. It comes from the French."

Community Board 2 was quick to call for a boycott of Lafayette French Pastry, to which Kefalinos responds, "I'm sorry they feel that way because I was trying to do a nice thing." Not seeming to grasp in any way the degree of outrage he's sparked, he added, "I did it and that's the end of it and it's over."
UPDATE 1/24: Now Ted Kefalinos apologizes: "Seriously, from the bottom of my heart, it was an innocent design I created. It was nothing more than just a piece of art."
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Freetime - Groove Theory - Exo (1.29.2009)

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6 Sex Mistakes Yo Dumb Ass Keep Making


In between facebooking & web surfering last night I came across a Men's Health Magazine article (by Author not sited) titled;


"6 Sex Mistakes You're Making"

1. Sex is a RaceBreak it: Explore her. Focus on her thighs and lower belly. Make a mental circle 2 inches around the outside of her vagina, and don't cross the line while you kiss, lick, and caress, says Gloria Brame, Ph.D., author of Different Loving. You'll ignite her nerve endings and bring her close to her red zone. It makes sex about discovery, not some destination. "Goal-oriented sex isn't sexy," Brame says.



2. Same Time, Same PlaceBreak it: Relive the past. Take her to the garage and reclaim the space you long ago ceded: Seduce her in the backseat of the car. It feels a little public, it's steeped in testosterone, and there's a throwback, high-school quality to it. Make it a quickie, which has its place in the sexual diet; having lots of sex begets more sex, because you stay connected, says Laura Berman, Ph.D., director of the Berman Center in Chicago.



3. Predictable ForeplayBreak it: Work out together. Think of it as fat-burning foreplay. It will raise her dopamine levels, easing her anxieties. "She'll feel the sex is about her and not some random need she has to accommodate," says Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D., a professor of sociology at Washington University. Bonus: Your post-run sweat has androstadienone, a testosterone derivative that spikes her arousal when she smells it.


To read the entire article click here

You do know you don't have to comment as yourself, you can do anonymous or enter any name you want!
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Ladies: Do you, Enable or Disable?


After having a conversation with a friend of mine last night, I began to think. She was complaining about the men in her life she "chooses" to deal with. She was saying how they keep doing the same things, expecting something from nothing, and etc. Now, most women at some point have dealt with shortcomings from men; I know I have.

My question is, WHY are we still blaming the men?? Is it not our free will to stay in a failed or failing relationship? My thing is, don't be upset with the man for doing exactly what he's been doing. If he is continually using the best parts of you and giving you no kind of reciprocity, you have all of the free will earthly possible to DISABLE him. The problem I have found is that us women enable some of these men to continue their half attempts of the relationship. With each failed promise, hurt feelings, and broken heart, we hope that the results will be different next time. Exactly how many times will it take for you to realize that the next time will likely produce the same results?!

I had a conversation with my male cousin. He stated that he felt lied to when a woman wants to change the status of the relationship. Basically, if you start the relationship as casual, then you have no right to try to up the stakes. Of course, I totally disagreed with him. Nine times out of ten, the woman will start developing stronger feelings before the man. Since women act more off of emotion we can become confused even though its been said. Even when the man says they don't want a relationship, but treats us like we are in a relationship, we start thinking that he may really want a relationship. The truth is, he may be just a good dude who knows how to treat women but he's just not ready for a relationship.

However, when that happens, it forces you to re-evaluate the direction of the relationship. At that moment, it is up to you to decide one of the following 1) allow the relationship to continue in hopes he will have a change of heart or 2)acknowledge that what you want and what he want are two different things and it may be best to go your respected ways.

Sidenote: Just because a man isn't ready to be in a relationship when you are does NOT make him a bad guy. Just not THAT guy.

Most women choose option 1 and though there is a chance for it to work, there is a chance it won't. You are enabling him to continue the kind of relationship he wants and ignoring what you really want. (We are such hopeful and patient creatures) Eventually, you will become upset with him for not wanting to progress when he already told you he wasn't ready. You can't be upset with the man when you enabled him in the situation. You have to be upset with yourself for staying and not looking out for your star player (shot out to Katt Williams). Anway, these are just a few of my thoughts/ramblings and I would love to hear yours.There are so many sub-topics of this note that are yet to be explored.....

(Author: V. R. 2009)

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